MAKE SPARKS FLY

Confidence is a critical component of bedroom performance. Feel good about your pant soldier and he'll stand up tall and strong, ready for adventure.

Our friend Sally tells the Truth. We were talking about working out and put forth that working out was about health and athletic performance, and that we always felt groovy in our bodies afterwards. Sally replied, "I work out so that when people look at me they want to spend the night with me" Touché.

Know Thyself! While a thorough understanding of your own anatomy isn't required to be a good lover, it can certainly help to understand how to hack the system, allowing you stay harder and maximize pleasure. With those worthy goals in mind, here is the GPS to the hometown

In any new territory, it can be helpful to consult a map. Ladies have some lovely topographies. Ecstatic peaks and pleasure valleys. Time for a road trip! We were not born with this anatomy, fellas, so let's take a look at what she's working with. This is the GPS to PLEASURETOWN.

An eyebrow raised...an interest piqued...a tent pitched...AROUSAL is state of excitement that has physical, emotional, and spiritual components. It is a feeling that can be energizing and even a little inebriating.

As men, and perhaps we are stating the obvious here, we generally have no clue what it means to be a woman. This is just Mother Nature.

Once she feels safe, seen, and sexy, it's time to get physical. Finally! But way to set the stage. Continue to take it slow for a while, maybe even slower than you think you should...

She's hot. Everything is feeling great. Now what?  Let's up the ante. Women can come all kinds of different ways.

STAMINA. What a powerful word. As soon as you hear it, you want it. In athletics or mental conditioning, stamina - the ability to stay focused and energized over extended periods of time - is a crucial component of performance.

The modern lifestyle has a million distractions. Between your money hustle, sporting life, social activities, and hopefully getting some sleep in there somewhere, it can be easy to completely overlook love making in any given day, week, or Riley Reid forbid, month. 

Refraining from busting a nut to enhance athletic performance is a time-honored tradition amongst male athletes. Muhammad Ali, Andre Agassi, Dustin "The Diamond" Poirier and countless others have all sworn by this method to conserve testosterone, as well as vital vitamins and minerals in their system.

It doesn't judge. It’s is always available. And let's admit it, that's kinda awesome! Online Entertainment is easy, accessible, and private. Almost every man has watched it. And more women than you may think. This is a huge industry, estimated to now compose one third of the internet.

People can develop intense or specific attractions to certain objects, scenarios, or body parts. These unique preferences can vary widely from person to person. As long as these desires are consensual and do not cause harm, they are considered a natural part of human expression.

It's not just your girlfriend that's hormonal. In the simplest terms, hormones are messengers in our body that regulate our appetite, sleep/wake cycle, and drive among other functions. Hormones play an integral role in our daily lives.

Fun fact: Only 3% of all mammal species are truly monogamous. And while serial monogamy maintains the position of the most common form of human relationships, it is not the only way we can relate to each other.

Hand play is highly underrated. Don't sleep on this martial art. Your hands, fingers, and especially your opposable thumbs are tools of the trade for turning her on and making her come.

The reward, as fits with meditation and philosophy, is overcoming the duality between individuals. Fully accept and stimulate every inch of each other, let go of the idea of taboo, and it is possible to blast off together into the stars through a portal located in her behind.

Ever wonder why we call it "eating"?

After all, we are more making out with it, right? But we call it eating out because after a session of rug munching, you will feel fed, nourished, and energized by the sweet nectar she produces. We think her juice is a holy substance.

Here's the Straight Truth: this activity does involve risk. The most severe risks for an ethical lover are STDs/STIs and unwanted pregnancies. But we can also include accidental injuries from bonking heads while boinking to "lost" toys that need a trip to the emergency room to remove.

Even love making can have a dark side. And not like Goth. Any human connection can have a power dynamic to it and power dynamics can be abused.